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Pam Leary: Strength, Positivity, and Protein Coffee

It’s time for episode 29 of the Relentless: Real People, Real Results, Real World podcast!

In this episode I welcome in Pam Leary – Relentless Fitness Strength Authority, personal trainer, aspiring physical therapist, dancer, and drinker of protein coffee.

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SHOWNOTES: 

  • Paying it forward and finding a charity that you believe in.
  • Pam’s Protein Coffee:
    • Step #1: Mock creamer – mix tablespoon of protein powder + tablespoon of water in bottom of a cup
    • Step #2: Pour hot coffee over mixture
  • On practicing what you preach: “Usually I like to torture myself with what I torture them with.”
  • On inspiration: “Basically any DMX song is enough to get me riled up.”
  • On the importance of strength exercise: “So many females out there are spinning their wheels doing cardio and abs and cardio and abs and eating less food. It’s just not working for them, and they’re wondering why.”
  • On teamwork in dancing: “I’m on that treadmill and I want to die, but my teammate next to me is still going. Then when I’m on the dance floor, and I’m so tired or I feel like I can’t push through, you have that same team feel. I’ve always loved that.”
  • On making a hard decision to shift out of dance: “It was a really hard decision to say that I’m going to stop doing what I thought that I was born to do and what I thought that I was put on this Earth to do and what everyone is telling me I should do. The day that I said ‘ok, I’m going to transition and it’s alright’ I feel like a big weight lifted, and I haven’t looked back ever since.”
  • Experiencing injuries in dancing and having a timely hip pop contribute to changing her course.
  • Advice to those with a nagging injury: “Always go get seen. So often people let it rest for a week, and then they go back to it. Get an eval with a doctor or a PT. You can Google all you want but it’s not going to give you the right answer.”
  • On resting: “Understand that rest is necessary…Either you’re out for a month while you’re recouping or this is going to be a nagging issue for the rest of your life. Which one are you willing to sacrifice?”
  • Roger: “No matter what profession you’re in, no matter what your career passion is, body awareness will serve you, especially as you get older.”
  • On instant gratification: “Everyone wants to know what they’re getting out of it right now, and they want to feel what they’re getting out of it now…In our industry it’s really hard to convince people that what they’re doing is going to work because they can’t see it right away and they have to look into the future for it.”
  • On following an entire protocol: “This is not a la carte fitness. You follow the plan and you stay consistent and you stay patient.”
  • On evolving your workouts: “Make sure you’re progressing. Change things up. Add some weight to your exercises or add some reps.”
  • On enjoying the process: “What makes me so happy to be in this business is I love the delayed gratification. I love thinking wow, three months ago you could not do that. Two months ago you’re pants did not look like that. I get excited for that.”
  • On client measuring sticks: “Focus on your performance metrics and consistency in those. I promise you if we continue to crush the performance metrics before you know it those physical ones you want will be there.”
  • On her career path: “Being able to combine those two things [personal training and physical therapy] and show people how movement can be medicine is going to be huge. It’s a big trend coming up in the world, and I want to be a part of it.”
  • Simple advice: “If you’re not passionate about something, then don’t do it.”
  • Roger: “We all have bad days, but when you show up at my service oriented job, you have to turn it on. That’s the name of the game…If I bring my baggage into a day, and I can’t turn it on, I’m a shitty professional.”
  • On positivity: “No one likes a Negative Nancy or a Debbie Downer.”
  • On public accountability: “If you’re afraid to do something, tell someone. Tell everyone.”
  • On the impact of strength: “Physical strength is so empowering mentally and physically, and it can do some much for you – your figure and your mind.”
  • Roger: “If you are high performing in one area of your life, that is transferable. For all of those high performing people out there who struggle with fitness, you are a step away. You are a well structured program and accountability away from becoming a high performing fitness person. You have that mindset. It’s just a matter of prioritizing and actualizing the fitness side of things.”
  • “Stop looking at other people’s inspirational stories and become your own.”
  • Don’t take on too much: “It’s ok to say no. In the end if I say yes to someone and then I have to back out of it, I look more like the jackass…You can’t be Superman. You can’t do everything.”

RELENTLESS RESOURCES:

RELENTLESS ACTION:

Mind: “Reconnect with why you’re doing what you’re doing. If you don’t remember why you’re doing it, you’re not going to want to do it. You’re not going to stay consistent if it’s not important to you. What is your goal? How important is it to you? Is what you’re doing aligning with that?”

Body: “If you have an injury, address it. If you have a light ache, address it. Don’t let it get to the point where you spend months and months in therapy.”

Business: “Be your own brand…What’s the first thing people are going to think when your name comes up and how do you want to represent yourself?”

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Gavin McKay: How to Balance Heart, Muscle, and Mind

It’s time for episode 20 of the Relentless: Real People, Real Results, Real World podcast!

In this episode I welcome in Gavin McKay –  Unite Fitness founder and president, serial entrepreneur, coach, and meditation enthusiast.

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SHOWNOTES: 

  • Drawing inspiration from the Dalai Lama and recommending Shambhala as both a professionally helpful and relaxation resource.
  • Attending Cornell and being surrounded by those with incredible drive: “It made me up my game.”
  • Having roots in the corporate world and its help in understanding what he did not want to do. “It was starting to irk me. I can’t do this. I can’t put on the khakis and a polo…I didn’t have my passion directed yet, but I knew something was not right where I was going.”
  • His environmental passions: “I have a hippie streak.”
  • Experiencing a “quarter life crisis” and leaving behind his business school path for a year of around-the-world travel. “I had to get lost to find myself.”
  • On leaving his life behind: “It was the hardest thing I’ve ever done, and then immediately when you do it you want to justify it. There’s this freedom in traveling for a year, and that freedom becomes deeper and deeper. It was the best decision I’ve ever made. I felt the best I’ve felt in my entire life because you’re stress free and taking in life’s every moment. I’ve never seen more sunsets. You wake up because you want to go somewhere and you want to see something. You’re in the now all the time.”
  • With the enormity of higher education investment in mind, encouraging others to allocate money to travel and exploration.
  • Growing up in a football town – “It was sort of a Friday Night Lights mentality” – and having that be the roots to his health and fitness interests.
  • Using travel, reflection, and journaling to crystallize his mission in health.
  • Another benefit of his quarter life crisis travels: “Every other risky decision becomes a lot easier.”
  • Writing and having an unreleased book.
  • Visiting a studio in California and witnessing a unique style of group training: “It pulled on all my team sport tendencies. Everyone was at their fittest when they had a coach, a team to do it with, and a program or purpose…That floated in my head for a few years. Then it was ‘How would I do it? How would it combine with bringing in mind/body elements?'”
  • Pioneering a concept in Philadelphia and establishing a market: “I remember thinking we’re going to have to explain to people what this is.”
  • “The scariest thing in the world is not knowing.” His solution: tapping into his personal network and asking questions. “Go to your people.”
  • Reaching out to potential mentors and not being deterred by perceived competition. “Be a human being.”
  • Unite and Relentless teaming up to benefit two causes – MANNA and Steve’s Club.
  • Creating the concept of Run4UrLife with like minded people and organizations to benefit MANNA. “You get the right people in the room and magic happens.”
  • Dividing and conquering labor to produce a well-executed event.
  • Advice on creating your own event: have a concept, differentiate it somehow, and connect with an existing community – “pull on strings that are already there”.
  • Learning from Crossfit’s journey – first building on the backs of their affiliates and later landing a major sponsorship (Reebok) that vaulted them to the next level.
  • Learning from his first few tough years in business: “Hiring is the most important, #1 thing. If you do that right everything will move twice as fast and be twice as enjoyable and be twice as amazing…I did not hire the right people. I did not have my criteria set for hiring.”
  • Establishing and writing out your new-hire criteria.
  • Early hiring woes: “You have to look the part. In the beginning I didn’t want to take that stance…Our focus is on inspiring people. That is done through voice, presence, and knowledge. Not having all of those in your bag is not great.”
  • On trusting yourself: “Sometimes it’s more obvious than you think…if there’s that thought at all in your head [doubt] just don’t go down that road…If there’s any question, it’s a no.”
  • Being unable to get a trademark for the business’s original name – Fusion Crosstraining – and taking a year to re-brand it to Unite Fitness.
  • Using a technique called masking to develop creative images on his Instagram account.
  • On business growth and evolution: “I think this is the biggest struggle that small businesses have. The biggest leap is to create a small business from nothing and it works – and by works I mean it is there in 5 years. It can make enough money to self sustain and to pay you. The next jump is equally as hard, and we’ve been working on that ever since we changed our name…It was very clear with all that extra work that I needed to get out of it…I needed to free myself and start thinking about the bigger picture.”
  • Bringing on partners and figuring out the right mix of money and sweat equity to give away.
  • Being pulled in several different directions and having his services suffer: “I wasn’t great at what I was doing anymore.”
  • Seeing irritation as a red flag to make a change.
  • Serial entrepreneurship and consistently thrusting himself into new things and new processes of creation. “We enjoy creating things.”
  • Establishing studio services, a race, and an online brand, and not knowing which concept would take the lead: “You never know what’s going to hit. You never know what’s going to bring your mission to people.”
  • The balance of marketing and creation: “You create something on the Internet, and people have this idea that something is going to go viral. It doesn’t really happen that way.”
  • Over time having the studios separate themselves as his lead service and exploring ways to expand them locally and nationally.
  • Being told “you have vision in spades”, but understanding that “a development area was how to communicate that to people.”
  • Going inside via meditation to deliver outside in the form of management and leadership.
  • Using Tara Brach’s guided meditation and preferring the morning-time.
  • Understanding when you are stressed and how you can wear it on your body: “Your mental becomes your physical.”
  • Having the philosophy of “heart, muscle, mind” and bringing everything down with a stretching/rolling/relaxation oriented 5-minutes at the close of the workout.
  • Informally defining meditation as: “Anything that gets you to slow down and tap into the senses of what’s going on right now.”

RELENTLESS ACTIONS:

Mind: Manage your own energy and stress levels and become aware of it in the physical sense. “Feel it so that you know then to do something about it.”

Body: Find expertise and help when it comes to your injuries and avoiding imbalances and compensations that occur over time. “Make the decision to take good care of yourself.”

Business: Force yourself out of your bubble and create a network of business people. Be uncomfortable in the moment, and try until you connect with someone.

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Why Coffee, Meat, and Wine Cause and Prevent Cancer at the Same Time

It’s time for Episode 16 of the Relentless: Real People, Real Results, Real World podcast:

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State of Relentless: 

Relentless Main Event: 

Relentless Actions: 

  • Mind: Visit your local bookstore (or reclaim a past, positive habit).
  • Body: Create a playing card deck workout.
  • Business: To the newer business people/owners, advice from Marissa Pellegrino: “Breathe. Just chill out. Your business is an extension of who you are so in some ways you may feel rejected, not good, not worthy of, it must be you. Remove yourself from the equation. Flip it and go onto the customer or the client side. What would I want? Does that line up with who you are? Are you waking up and doing that? Do you feel good?”

Relentless Ask:
5 days remain to fund a Steve’s Club teenager. Be my hero, click here, and change a life!

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Reduce Stress in 10 Steps, Take Charge of Your Future Self, and Create Clarity

It’s time for Episode 14 of the Relentless: Real People, Real Results, Real World podcast:

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State of Relentless: 

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Relentless Main Event: 

  • Consider who you want to be and/or what you want to create in 1, 10, 20 years. Is today contributing to that? Consider and chart your course.
  • Be honest about your stressors and don’t be fooled by the presentation of others – everyone has their unique set of struggles.
  • Make sure that your go-to stress reaction is not always flight. Balance it with some fight.
  • 10 short-term stress reduction strategies.

Relentless Actions: 

  • Mind: Create a Mastermind group with personalities offering a fresh perspective and external accountability to your hopes and dreams.
  • Body: Eat and drink seasonal, local, and fresh – you’ll be better for it.
  • Business: Provide crystal clarity for yourself first, which extends to others.

Relentless Ask:
Hit me in the comments or at roger@relentless-fitness.com with a question, topic, or theme you’d like addressed on a podcast episode soon!

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The Fine Line Between Grind and Rest Your Mind

It’s time for Episode 13 of the Relentless: Real People, Real Results, Real World podcast:

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State of Relentless: 

Relentless Main Event: 

  • The dark side of being an entrepreneur – when caring, taking on more responsibility, and persisting after your vision overwhelm you.
  • Employing three strategies – internal adaptation, external adaptation, and systems – to lessen your burden.
  • Fighting the urge to run and finding a way through the pain.

Relentless Actions: 

  • Mind: Removing social media phone notifications and batching it like your email.
  • Body: Taking advantage of the beautiful Fall season while it’s here via hikes and outdoor activity.
  • Business: Seeing the opportunity in the holiday season, which is a common ground for many.

Relentless Ask:
Help our youth out. Make a tax-deductible donation to the at-risk youth benefited by Steve’s Club.

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Reverse Engineer Your Finish Line

Reverse Engineer Your Finish Line
In Episode 8 of the Relentless: Real People, Real Results, Real World podcast we talk about the balance between art and science, reverse engineering your physical and performance success, and the power of getting your customers involved.

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State of Relentless: 

Relentless Main Event: 

  • Reverse engineering your physical and performance realities.
  • Discussing the Spartan Race and its assortment of priorities: burpees, run intervals, and grip strength training.
  • Applying reverse engineering to physique-related goals: gaining muscle mass, reducing bodyfat, and losing weight.
  • Extending it to business-related goals like sales: assessing quotas, lead acquisition, etc.

Relentless Actions: 

  • Mind: Referencing my Lil’ Wayne/Gary Vaynerchuk post, and encouraging you to “do you” and find your own set of inputs.
  • Body: It’s already week 10 of my push-up challenge, and it’s going swimmingly. So much so that you really should set your own!
  • Business: Making a donation to Rosa’s Fresh Pizza to feed the homeless and drawing on a colorful sticky note sparked musings about small business customer experience and involvement.

Relentless Ask:
Send me a question! Comment right here, shoot me an email at roger@relentless-fitness.com, Facebook me, or Tweet me. Let me know what you want to hear about in future episodes. You ask, and I’ll answer!

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Steve Liberati: Build Something Remarkable, Remain Curious, and Water Down Your Wine

It’s time for episode two and the first long-format discussion on the Relentless: Real People, Real Results, Real World podcast!

Podcast Description:

A deep dive into how real people get real results in the real world. Relentless mixes stories to provide context and the actions you can take right now in both short-format episodes and long-format interviews. Get ready to tackle anything from your morning cup of coffee to your exercise and nutrition regimens to building a million dollar business.

Steve Liberati: Build Something Remarkable, Remain Curious, and Water Down Your Wine

In this episode I welcome in Steve Liberati, a true Crossfit OG, the founder of Steve’s Club, the creator of Steve’s PaleoGoods, and – he’d say most importantly – a husband and father.  Here’s the rundown:

  • Steve on Seth Godin: “He inspired me not only to build something but to build something remarkable.”
  • He fueled the discussion with Nespresso, although his morning began with French pressed La Colombe coffee.
  • Strategy for breaking out of a slump: “stand up, walk around, go outside, and take a deep breath.”
  • Inspiring book of the moment: Different by Youngme Moon.
  • On the corporate world: “It sounds real fancy. I had a suit and tie. I had a fancy business card. I thought I had everything I wanted.”
  • Soul searching and transitioning careers: “I have to love what I do. I have to have meaning.”
  • Learning on the pest control job as part of his Dad’s company: “It’s one thing to have all of the textbook concepts and marketing terms, but it’s a whole different thing running a business and wearing multiple hats.”
  • A recommendation to keep the daytime job and use it to pay the bills while you pursue other avenues.  “When you’re pressured to pay the bills it changes your focus.”
  • The organic evolution of ideas.
  • Forget “What are you passionate about?”  Ask “What are you curious about?”
  • Seeing the benefits of group training and starting Crossfit Tribe in the park with sandbags.
  • Inspiring youth via creating an environment in which to succeed.
  • Respecting the adversities and challenges of others and realizing it’s not me vs. the world.
  • On spreading himself too thin: “We all have ADD. We want to do so many different things. We want to have our hands in everything. And before you know it, it’s just not effective. I was doing a lot, but I wasn’t doing anything great.”
  • Big Steve to Young Steve: “Keep it real. You have to be realistic with  yourself and what your strengths are. Time management wasn’t one of my strengths.”
  • Ditching technology for a pen and post-it notes to stay on schedule.
  • Growing slow and find the sweet spot – best possible service balanced with good demand.  More is not necessarily better.
  • Advice to online sellers: “Do your research.” Sometimes an idea may not work even though it’s your passion. Map it out and do your homework. “Hope is not a strategy.”
  • Advice to retail sellers: “Make sure you are well funded.” Self-funding is very difficult when it comes to fast growth. Get capital beforehand, not during.
  • Living by strong principles and being proud to sell what you are offering.
  • Resisting pressures to cut costs and quality: “Once you take a cookie from the cookie jar you think you can take another cookie.”
  • Recognizing that managing people is not a strength and finding others to thrive in that role. “I do my best to lead from the front.”
  • Leaving his ego behind: “Even though my name is on it, it isn’t about Steve.”
  • Family is #1.
  • Balancing work and family and deciding to go home on time: “Is the smokehouse on fire? Can it be fixed tomorrow? Can I come back to this?”
  • Respecting “feeling good” as just as powerful an end goal as scale reduction.
  • There are no magic pills and cookie cutters. Everyone has to find their personalized sweet spot.
  • Having an end game of helping as many people as he can, eating good, feeling good, and being good.
  • Emulating Roman emperors and watering down his wine.

STEVE’S Relentless Action:  Counteract.  Balance is key, and it’s at the heart of everything we do.  If you’re going all out balls to the wall, take a step back, relax, read a book, take a walk.

A Gift: My favorite to-go snack is the Dark Chocolate Pineapple Paleo Bar.  Use the code “PaleoSteve” to get a one-time 10% off discount at Steve’s PaleoGoods.

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